Nyxie Noc

(they/she/he/it) is a San Francisco–based kink educator, consent specialist, and community consultant with over 15 years of experience in alternative lifestyle spaces. Drawing from their background in sex work, professional dominance, content creation, and event leadership, Nyxie creates classes and frameworks that center agency, equity, and safer play. They’ve led Consent and Care teams, and provided training for both individuals and organizations on topics like ethical dominance, conflict response, and navigating harm. Their original framework, BURGERS for Agency, has been shared widely with communities seeking to move beyond checkbox consent. Nyx’s teaching blends practical kink skills with emotional intelligence, helping people connect more intentionally in power exchange and play. Their work has supported events like Sex Geek Summer Camp, Boundless, Stopgap Dungeon, and Folsom Street Events. Nyx believes kink can be hot and healing—and that everyone deserves to play with confidence, clarity, and care.