How to Read a Bottom

How to be Read by a Top

Ever negotiate a scene and some one tell you they are a pain slut and find out they are not, at least by your idea of a pain slut? Ever negotiate a scene and someone tell you they are NOT a pain slut, but during the scene you find they want to go farther then you could imagine? Ever have someone go “quiet” and not know what it means? Every have someone giggle while you think you are hitting as hard as you can?

Trust me, Safe Words are NOT enough. Negotiations are NOT enough. We, Bottoms and Tops must learn to “communicate” during our scenes, but in ways that don’t ruin the mood or the “space”. We have to learn to read physical language, and maybe even the language of human energies.

I have some ideas, (one of them my own secret, come in and maybe I will tell it to you). You have your ideas, so bring those. Together lets try and discover ways to make our scenes more memorable, more “hot”, more where both partners want to really go.